Why Rochel Chose the Social Work Pathway

Rochel Neiman shares her journey towards earning her Master's in Social Work.

How did you first hear about Sara Schenirer?

I heard about Sara Schenirer from others who previously attended the program. I looked into the program and was impressed by the professionalism and quality of education. I also knew it would be the best environment for me as an ultra-orthodox female.

What inspired you to pursue a career in Social Work?

As a principal of a large girls' elementary school, I’ve guided students, staff, and parents through a multitude of issues over the past 18 years. Over time, I’ve observed that people are becoming more open to guidance and therapy, and it’s gratifying to be able to facilitate others in their personal journeys. Additionally, I have my own large family filled with so many personalities, talents, and individual abilities that have taught me to accept, interact, and bring out the best in each one. I wanted to learn the techniques and interventions to better help people in the most professional and effective way.

How prepared did you feel when you first started? What surprised you most about your classes?

I came in ready to work. This is my second master's degree, so I was already aware of the enormous time commitment. The two-day orientation at the opening of the program explained to us what the program would entail and confirmed that the workload would be significant. The professors also pre-assigned readings and suggested books that were helpful in preparing for the courses.  

Through the program, I discovered that in order to succeed as a social worker I would need to commit to becoming a lifelong learner. For instance, I realized that you don’t necessarily graduate as an expert in every treatment modality, and that a great deal of understanding comes only with time and experience. From the moment I joined the orientation, however, I started to learn fascinating information which helped me conceptualize events through the lens of an empathic listener.

What has been your favorite part of your experience so far? Most challenging?

My favorite part was the live-online classes, which also aligned well with my busy lifestyle. In addition to having a large family, I worked a time-consuming job, so it was daunting to simultaneously embark upon graduate school. Being able to attend classes from my quiet bedroom without traveling anywhere was a huge benefit. The courses were so meaningful and enriching, and I eagerly awaited them on weeknights and Sundays. I learned something valuable from every professor and each lesson was relevant and informative. I also felt deeply connected to my classmates and we helped each other by sharing notes or explaining report requirements, all of which solidified our bond. The challenging part was juggling the extensive research and writing assignments with my job and family responsibilities, but it was well worth the effort and hard work.

What skills are important for success in Social Work?

It’s necessary for social workers to have the ability to listen well and exude a feeling of confidence blended with humility. It’s also extremely important to meet clients where they are emotionally and realize that their story is their reality. We must show empathy and accept the way they’re experiencing things, allowing clients to walk us through their own truth while also maintaining keen awareness of the effects of countertransference. 

Social workers should be kind and accepting of all humanity despite any apparent differences in culture. I believe that the ability to speak comprehensively, convey thoughts clearly, and paraphrase well, is also quite helpful to clients. Additionally, creating boundaries and knowing your limits is crucial for successful long-term results.

How much time do you spend on coursework outside of class?

I spent many hours every week since it was important to me to maintain an excellent GPA and to avoid lateness. Some students may find that they can give a smaller time commitment.

How does the schedule fit with your lifestyle?

I juggled the program by doing homework at night and cutting out all extras other than family and work obligations. Given my busy schedule, I did not attend any other celebratory affairs during the 18 months of my schooling. I put my coursework first and didn’t allow my assignments to pile up. I davened to Hashem all the time for success in the program and for the wherewithal to handle it. With His boundless assistance, upon completing the program, I passed the exam, found a job at the clinic I wanted, and am now working with clients.

How would you describe the support you receive from Sara Schenirer staff and professors?

The culture is perfect for a frum woman who wants to be in an all-female environment with other like-minded students. The classes consisted of a healthy mix of students from different backgrounds, cities, ages, and personalities. The professors were excellent and the administrative support was incredible. (Thank you Rechy, Orit, Baila, Diana, and Shira, to name a few!) I also found the YU library staff to be very accommodating and supportive.

What advice would you give to new students starting out?

New students should realize that this is a serious commitment and plan wisely and practically. If possible, move whatever you can off your calendar and to-do list, and focus wholly on your schooling for the best results. I did keep my full-time job, but used every other spare minute to spend with my family and complete my schoolwork. Try and stay present during class and focus on what you’re learning to absorb all the information. College is a major financial commitment, so my advice would be to use the time wisely and gain everything you can.

What are your goals after earning your degree?

Currently, I work at a clinic in Lakewood that services children and adults. We treat patients dealing with various issues including anxiety, depression, ADHD, bipolar disorder, addictions impacting marriage, parenting, selective mutism, and the effects of divorce on children. I have not chosen a specialty yet, but hope to go into private practice after completing my clinical requirements. I would also like to teach future social work students. I know that with my fantastic Sara Schenirer education, it will be possible to achieve my goals!